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Darius' Foster Care Adventure - A Book/Game Combo

Updated: Dec 10, 2022

A Book and Game to help children with foster care, adoption, and guardianship.

The story is about a boy taken from his parents and placed in a home with people he doesn't know.

Darius’ Foster Care Adventure is about a boy who was removed from his parent’s home after they got in trouble. He is nervous as he goes to stay with a foster family, unsure about how he will be received and if his needs will be met. He slowly warms to the family and eventually feels like he is at home. He works through conflicting emotions, grieving the loss of his parents, feeling torn about where he belongs, and confusion and anger regarding his parent’s absence.


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Acclimating to a new foster family can be stressful and traumatic.

The book was intentionally left as a cliffhanger – it does not say whether Darius was able to go back home to his parents. Some of the kids I read the book to were frustrated by this, appearing to want to know how his story ends so they could better process their own situation. The game cards seemed to help, as kids were able to identify ways their story was similar and identify ways it is different. They could consider from an outside view how they thought Darius would feel and what he would experience.

Darius experiences many conflicting feelings about his experience in foster care and is confused about what is happening in his life.

Foster care/adoption/guardianship situations are all so different and multidimensional. Some kids have no memory of their parents while others have regular visits. Some know that their parents are working hard to get home and other kids have no idea where their parents are. This is the perfect game to pull my card trick – pretend you are reading the card but ask whatever question you know they need to talk about. Be careful to not get caught!


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Darius eventually learns to cope with his situation and knows he is loved and cared for.

This book is a way to open dialogue regarding a difficult topic. Kids will often avoid talking about their own feelings but may be willing to talk about what someone in a similar situation is going through. Ultimately, one of the most difficult aspects is not knowing if they will return home. It tends to be a lingering question that causes instability and a sense of not knowing where they belong.

Another aspect of the foster care/guardianship/adoption situation is that kids are all at various stages of grieving the loss of their parents and working on bonding with their new family. Kids who have been adopted may have already worked through the process and now identify their adoptive family as to where they belong. Age also makes a significant difference in the process.

In conclusion, it’s complicated! I can see why there are so few resources for therapists related to foster care and adoption. I hope this is a helpful resource that will help in the healing journey of children.

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